45 life lessons (at 45 years old)


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My friend (and podcast guest) Nat Eliason just wrote the ultimate beach read.

I rarely read non-fiction, but devoured Crypto Confidential in one sitting.

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🎧 In this week's podcast, we ask: Should you bet your life on crypto?


45 Life Lessons (at 45 years old)

I turned 45 on Monday.

If you believe actuarial estimates, I've lived 60.3% of my life.

A solid (but daunting) 39.7% remains.

I've worked my butt off. Taken big risks. Tinkered with what's possible. And smiled a lot.

Here are 45 things I've learned along the way


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Here are this week's top reads:

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The right kind of stubborn

5 minutes | Paul Graham

Obstinance and persistence seem to be the same thing: stubbornly pursuing a goal in the face of adversity. But we all know persistent people, and we all know stubborn people. The difference? How they act when their ideas are challenged.

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The key to longevity is boring

3 minutes | The New York Times

Cold plunges, Athletic Greens, intermittent fasting and Oura Rings (or maybe Apple Watches?). The industrial-longevity industry is worth billions of dollars. And is always willing to sell you the next silver bullet. But living healthier (and for longer) is a lot simpler than that.

Read the article

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35 boundary phrases to use in relationships, workplace

6 minutes | Parade

Boundaries. The word itself causes a shiver for people-pleasers everywhere. But setting (and enforcing) them leads to healthier relationships and better communication. A few of my favorites include: compromise, fighting fair and the power of no.

Read the article


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