Hi Reader, I can't believe the kiddos start school this week. But let's be honest, a little structure probably ain't a bad thing. Speaking of fatherhood, I often wonder if I'd be a better parent if I was less ambitious. Hear me out, I know my drive has created a wonderful life for my family. But I can easily tip into the land of unhinged ambition - and then become distracted and disconnected. My friend Jeff Hittner (who wrote this week's essay) is organizing a free workshop for Ambitious Dads looking to develop new tools to deepen our connection with our children.
Am I a bad dad? Today's essay is a guest post written by Jeff Hittner. Jeff's an entrepreneur, executive coach, husband, and father (rarely in that order!), the founder of Ambitious Dads and an ambitious dad himself. Ambitious Dads is a resource for fathers inspired to lead in their careers AND at home with their children. He threw food, screamed and smacked his little brother upside the head. Yup, my 5-year old was having his Will Smith moment. That’s when I lost it. I grabbed him from his seat, arms wailing in the air and brought him to his bedroom. I channeled my inner Stone Cold Steve Austin and body slammed him onto his fluffy duvet. And slammed the door behind me as I left. This made everything worse, of course. My son’s emotional meltdown was met with my equally worse dysregulation. It immediately bubbled up my insecurities about fatherhood. And I wondered, “Am I a bad dad?”
From our sponsor: Here are this week's top reads: // oneHow ‘coaching’ became Silicon Valley’s hack for therapy2 minutes | New York TimesEveryone seems to be a coach today... ahem. Is coaching snake oil? And how does it differ from therapy and its strict qualification standards? This is a long read that goes into incentive structures of therapy and the capitalist motivations to always be improving one's self. // twoA few laws of getting rich7 minutes | Collab FundIt’s been drilled into our heads that money can’t buy happiness. Yes, money can make our lives easier, but that doesn’t paint the full picture. Morgan Housel explains 13 “downsides” to being rich, like: admiration may actually be envy and it’s hard to let go of worry when you’re rich. // threeRemote workers are about to get a rude awakening5 minutes | Business InsiderWith the rise of remote work, many professionals moved out of big cities like New York and San Francisco looking for a better lifestyle. But is that decision sustainable in over the long term? Or is it going to harm their potential for future professional growth? This Week on The Examined Life PodcastThis week's episode: How to overcome envy Below the Fold
|
Ready to achieve your goals and get more out of life? Join 50,000 ambitious professionals who are pursuing productivity, growing their career and creating financial freedom.
Hi Reader, I'm still recovering from Halloween, don't forget to Fall Forward. The LifeOS is your home base for personal productivity — one app to rule them all. It’s a 100% turnkey system to help you get on top of things and in control of your life. The LifeOS combines tasks, notes, project management and a CRM in one place and also includes 27 short modules covering our core productivity frameworks and implementation strategies. Get the Life OS → The “Number Go Up” syndrome Raise your hand...
Hi Reader, Who's going to be Ray Gun for Halloween? Who's going to do their best Steven Covey impersonation as we enter the home stretch of 2024? Supercharge your Productivity is the only course that connects the pursuit of productivity to life’s larger questions. So you can design a system that works for you. Enroll today and get instant access to all the course materials. Supercharge your Productivity → Why I blew up my Wall Street career Is it just me or does adulthood seem backwards? You...
Hi Reader, I hope everyone's weekend is off to a great start and all of my cities are repp'ing in the MLB playoffs. Learning AI has ranked high on my list (next to making music and improving my flexibility). A year ago, AI was a nice-to-have. This year it's become a I-can't-imagine-life-wit And my friend (and fellow RadReader) Ozan Varol created a course (that I've taken) that will get you up to speed in an easy and practical way. The AI Advantage (enrollment closes today, 10/19) will teach...