How to feel more fulfilled this year


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I’m off to the EconoMe conference in Cincinnati this week. Ohio friends hit me up!

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In speaking to my readers and clients I observed a recurring pattern.

Really smart professionals knew that they should be using AI more, but were completely lost about where to begin.

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Here are this week's top reads:

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What if your worry problem is really a planning problem?

8 minutes | Psyche

We think worry is primarily an emotional problem. But new research suggests it's more about flawed planning algorithms in your brain. Chronic worriers start planning too early, struggle to stop, and obsess over irrelevant details. Should we obsess less about our feelings and more about fixing our planning errors?

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The passion recipe

5 minutes | The Art of Impossible

Are you chasing passion—or just another dopamine hit? We think passion strikes like lightning, but it actually arises from tiny sparks of curiosity stacked together over time. Turns out, passion isn’t something you find; it’s something you cultivate, deliberately.

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How I learned that the problem in my marriage was me

7 minutes | NY Times

Most marriage advice overlooks a key fact: we’re often the problem we’re trying to solve. The author learned this through therapy with Terry Real (aka Bruce Springsteen’s couples therapist), whose brutal honesty revealed his anger as emotional dependence—expecting his wife to fix childhood wounds. Healing marriages, requires relational strength: openly confronting our flaws without using our partners as emotional crutches.

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Stories from my life

I saw this debate between two RadReaders on Twitter this week:

I'm of two minds here.

From age 16 to 35, I grinded with ferocious intensity.

That grind, without a doubt, enabled me to semi-retire at 35.

The last decade has been chill, joyous and curiosity-driven.

Yet, I haven’t experienced nearly the financial success of that first period.

Indeed, it’s a chicken-and-egg dilemma.

Here's one lens: How would you explain this dilemma to your young kids?

To me, there's healthy struggle versus unhealthy struggle.

The unhealthy kind comes from not-enoughness, conformity, status chasing, low self-worth and scarcity.

The healthy part from curiosity, presence, passion, intrinsic motivation and aliveness.

As a parent, it becomes less about the outcome of the grind and more about examining each component.

For both my kids (and myself) I'm constantly wondering:

Where does your not-enoughness come from?

And what brings you aliveness?


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And finally, Eddie Vedder’s acoustic vocals on Black still hard 30 years later.

With gratitude,

Khe

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