Invisible habits are driving your life


Hi Reader,

Hope everyone’s weekend is off to a great start.

In LA, the winds have subsided, and the city and its residents are grappling with the magnitude of destruction.

Thank you for those who reached out about donating.

(We created two guides: one for displaced individuals and the other for places to donate.)

In the first story this week, you'll hear Lawrence Yeo's harrowing tale about leaving his house abruptly and living through the dark cloud of uncertainty.

Enrollment is also open for Lawrence's incredible Thinking in Stories course.

In a world where we'll be drowning in AI-generated slop, storytelling is the one skill that will help you truly stand out. (Not an affiliate.)


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Here are this week's top reads:

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On fleeing the inferno

7 minutes | MoreToThat

“There are moments in life where you feel like everything’s a bonus.” I’ve read and watched many stories about the tragic losses arising from the LA fires. My dear friend Lawrence Yeo aka MoreToThat (and frequent RadReads/podcast collaborator) viscerally describes his family’s escape, the week of debilitating uncertainty and the complete whipsaw of emotions. (I also highly recommend his storytelling course Thinking in Stories.).

Read the article

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No, you don’t get an A for effort

4 minutes | New York Times

"Praise effort, not outcomes." As Gen X/Millennial parents, we fall much more into the Carol Dweck camp than our Boomer parents did. But the hard truth is that effort alone can be uncorrelated with outcomes. Even worse, it can lead to wasting energy on the wrong things — when instead you should be cutting your losses.

Read the article

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Invisible habits are driving your life

6 minutes | The Atlantic

Think you're in control of your daily routines? Science suggests you're not. Our most basic actions - from showering to making coffee - run on autopilot. While this automation makes life easier, it can trap us in patterns that no longer serve our needs or desires.

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This Week on The Examined Life Podcast

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This week's episode: What’s it like being married to an entrepreneur?


Stories from my life

I'll admit it.

I'm hooked.

Yup, to making mediocre beats.

And writing code using AI (using the text-to-code platform called cursor).

In 2 hours I created a new personal website (which looks 1,000x better than the RadReads website).

Then I built a tool that generates content based on my own voice. This was more daunting as it required connecting to the Claude API, Supabase (to store the data) and fidgeting with GitHub.

This is all via Nat Eliason's course Build Your own Apps using AI.

(I am an affiliate, but have spent 40+ hours on the course materials and one of the most engaged members in the community.)

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LAST WEEK'S MOST READ

And finally, an owner reunites with his dog after the LA fires.

With gratitude,

Khe

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