The difference between a HENRY and a NENRY


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When HENRYs become NENRYs

The HENRYs are a coveted demographic.

They're young, educated and tend to be concentrated in big cities.

They are High-Earners with an asterisk. Not Rich Yet.

HENRY.

HENRY's are typically in their late 20s and 30s and earn between $300,000 and $500,000.

Just as I familiarized myself with this acronym, I discovered a new term:

The NENRY.


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Here are this week's top reads:

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Admitting what is obvious

4 minutes | Every

This essay hit hard. Despite writing for nearly a decade, I struggle to call myself a “writer.” There are many reasons why that's the case, not limited to imposter syndrome and weird internal mental models about status. But when you admit the obvious, freedom ensues. Then you become unstoppable.

Read the article

// two

Kayaks and superyachts

5 minutes | The Imperfectionist

Many of us would like to navigate our careers as if we were the captain of a big ship, seeking control, predictability and narrative coherence. But what if life’s more like a kayak – risky, uncertain and messy. Doing big things requires not only doing the work but also trusting that we’ll eventually reach our destination.

Read the article

// three

Pursuing what you want without spending much time considering why you want it

3 minutes | Reddit

Many young professionals are eager to get “there.” Whether it’s money, power, or success, they’re laser-focused on the outcome and will do anything to make it happen. But not having clarity on why they’re doing it can make success feel hard, lonely and leave them wondering: “Was it truly worth it?”.

Read the tweetstorm


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This week's episode: How do you find meaning after an IPO?


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Khe

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