They got everything they wanted by 30. Then what?


Hi Reader,

Happy weekend! We just got back from the Jamie XX show at The Shrine Auditorium.

This month we also crossed a serious milestone.

I've been sending this newsletter for 10 years. Many of you have been on this ride for the entire decade.

And whether you're a veteran or reading this for the first time - thank you.

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Here are this week's top reads:

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They got everything they wanted professionally by 30. Then what?

13 minutes | Marie Claire

What happens when you peak professionally before age 30? Behind the Forbes “30 under 30” lists and media glamour lies a darker truth: early success often comes with imposter syndrome, burnout and the gnawing fear that your best days are behind you. Tying your identity to early achievements is a dangerous game – one that leaves you questioning whether you're truly talented or just caught a lucky break.

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The FIRE Movement (A Critique)

9 minutes | Jared Dillian

Everyone wants to FIRE (i.e. Financial Independence, Retire Early). You save aggressively, minimize consumption, invest in the S&P 500 and BOOM — no more working. Financial commentator (and provocateur) Jared Dillian thinks it’s a bunch of hogwash that misrepresents the value of free time, the joy of material goods and how happy people like their work.

(FWIW, I appreciate many elements of the FIRE movement, yet don’t believe it brings you any closer to answering life’s thorny questions.)

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Minimum levels of stress

3 minutes | Collab Fund

Have our problems gotten too small for our own good? When real threats vanish, we magnify minor inconveniences into major crises - I'm guilty of this all the time. Perhaps the pettier our collective outrage becomes, the better life actually is.

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This Week on The Examined Life Podcast

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This week's episode: Can money buy happiness?


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LAST WEEK'S MOST READ

And finally, a young girl with the perfect Kylie Minogue cover (while her brother dances like a madman).

With gratitude,

Khe

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